| Christine |
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| July 23, 2008 at 08:37 AM |
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Thanks to all of you who have previously posted. I was feeling pretty crappy this morning after a visit from boyfriend's teenaged daughter. Seems she only comes around or calls when she needs something ($$$) and she needed plenty ($$$) last night. Anyhow, it was good just to read these old posts and get insights from you all that I can really take to heart. Hard as it is that he came with baggage (and I certainly have my own), I love him to death and want his daughter eventually to be a healthy and happy part of our lives, so .... I will be checking back in here, I'm sure!! Thanks again! |
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| wendell |
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Christine , I know the frustration that you are feeling.I am dating a woman that has 4 children and the oldest boy Andy does exactly the same thing. The only time he comes by is when it is going to benefit him.Being his mothers boyfriend i do not have the right to say anything to him but I have gotten tired of watching his mother cry every time she doesn't have the money for whatever game he thinks he needs.Please don't take this the wrong way I don't hate Andy or treat him any different than any of the other 3 kids,I would like to know how to get him to respect his mother more. |
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