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Andrew
    May 06, 2008 at 09:40 AM
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I am recently married and am now a step-father of two young boys. The biological father has not been present or interested for some time now...not until I came into the picture. I have a good marriage and our family time is very important. The bio-father is doing what he can to make me look bad with his sons..the boys, 5 and 6, are now confused because they are trying to get to know two Dad's...a good one and a not so good one. We try and keep the balance with positive teachings but it seems the bio-father wants to teach negative thoughts. any help out there??
Josie
    May 11, 2008 at 10:58 AM
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Wow, sucks to be you... as hard as it is, you must stay the course and think in terms of months and years, not in days and minutes. Say positive words at all times and "bite your tongue until it bleeds" when it comes to negativity about the biological dad. Love goes a long way, it just takes time. If you have custody, the kids will figure it out.
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