| Laurie |
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| March 31, 2008 at 09:58 AM |
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Getting involved with his child has been a great learning experience. I've learned a lot about myself, about him and about parenting. Now we have our own child and it's more difficult than I thought it would be. I really want both kids to be close and have a strong relationship with each other. I'm noticing jealousy and some resentment from the step child. This is heartbreaking. I'm hoping over time we can show they are truly equal in our eyes, but not sure if that's a realistic expectation. Anyone have any suggestions? |
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| April |
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| April 02, 2008 at 07:57 PM |
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Don't know if this helps, but I am a step-daughter and as I have grown, I see how much I am truly valued by my step-mother. Not only that, but I see how much she loves my kids like they were her own bio grandkids. I would say to stay the course and show the step how much you love him or her, just like you always have. Also, any new kid (bio or not) is going to spark jealousy in siblings so maybe it is just the normal rivalry. Be kind to yourself - you sound like you are a great step-mom! |
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